Thursday, December 16, 2010

Connecting to Inner Positive Qualities...!!!

Making things positive doesn’t mean a sunny outlook; 
it means making the choice to see problems as opportunities.
Every problem and difficult situation is embedded with a solution -
the adventure lies in finding the solution.

When we worry, we make problems bigger than what they really are.
Instead of worrying, accept whatever you have no control over, 
prepare wherever you can and choose happiness instead of worry!

Getting on with people is tough, especially when they don’t fulfill your expectations!
Instead, if you accept people the way they are without expecting them
to be something they’re not, you end up less disappointed and frustrated.

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Help Others To Be Positive & That Will Make Your Life Smooth Too !!

There cannot be a positive output when there is a negative input.

We often work in this way, wanting others to be better in some way, but, instead of helping them, or having faith in them and seeing their good qualities, we hinder (obstruct) them by concentrating on their past, their weaknesses and their mistakes. Our focus is completely negative, but still we expect them to change for the better!

When our awareness is more detached, rather than focusing on what is wrong, we look at how we can put something right by contributing a positive feeling, or attitude. This anonymous (not known to anyone) contribution is a generous act, which offers a solution, instead of the usual complaints by critical and judgemental people.

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Learning & Actions lead to Perfection !

Perfection comes to the one who is open to learning.

When we realize having made a mistake, we usually have negative thoughts about ourselves. This is because we expect the best out of ourselves, i.e., we expect ourselves to be perfect in everything we do. But this expectation prevents us from taking naturally the learning from the situation. We need to realize that perfection does not come by thinking about it but by being busy in whatever we are doing. With every action of ours comes a learning and this automatically brings perfection.

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.