Thursday, February 17, 2011

Live Up To The Expectations To See The Difference !

Not only do we have expectations of others we also have great expectations of ourselves. And when we don’t live up to those expectations we can easily be upset with ourselves. We all know that being angry towards ourselves solves nothing and has no benefit. It simply deepens the habit and puts more emotional poison into our system. We only need to be gentle with ourselves, and accept ourselves as we are. There is no such thing as failure, only learning from situations – this is the kind of knowledge we need to have to heal the habit of remaining upset with ourselves. 

When we get angry with others, we need to realize what we give to others is what we get back – this is the kind of knowledge we need in order to understand the story of our life, so we do not look back on life in anger as one filled with injustice. And yet, even with all the knowledge in the world, the habit of becoming angry will likely remain, even in subtle (fine) forms. So it helps the healing process to keep forgiving, keep forgetting, keep understanding and moving on. But most off all keep visualizing. We need to keep visualizing ourselves being free of anger in situations and relationships where before anger was common. 

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt. Abu

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Listen Negative but Respond Positive - The Art of Listening !

The ability to find solutions comes when I know the art of listening. 

I normally get to hear a lot of things and tend to get coloured by all that I hear. The more I hear about negative things, the more difficult it becomes to maintain my own positivity. Yet I can do nothing to ignore the things that make me feel negative. I need to know to listen to people rather than just hearing them. To know to listen means the ability to transform negative into positive. Just as a doctor listens to all the negative aspects about the disease etc and still knows only to give the medicine, I too need to listen in order to give what is required. 

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt. Abu

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

To Make Big Things Small is to Remain in Peace - Problem Solving Quotes

To make big things small is to remain in peace. Many times life brings situations, which are difficult and seem impossible to work on. But there should be the ability to transform something as big as a mountain into something as small as a grain of sand. To do this means to look for solutions instead of looking at problems. It also means to make effort to find the right answers for the problems. When I have the ability to look at things lightly, I will be able to make even big things as small. This gives me the courage to deal with situations with ease. Then I am able to remain in peace. Such a state of mind is naturally able to bring out the best solutions under all circumstances.

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt. Abu

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Monday, February 14, 2011

As Is the Seed So is the Fruit - Selfhelp Quotes

As is the seed so is the fruit. Several times we find things happening unexpectedly. Yet, there should be the understanding that nothing is unexpected or a matter of chance but everything depends on the seeds previously planted. When there is this understanding there is no passiveness but there is an ability to take responsibility and better the situation. Every thing we do has a deep significance and an importance for what we have to attain. When we understand this fact, we are able to make the most out of what we have. We are never discouraged by the negative results that we get today, nor do we take ourselves to a great height for the positive things that we get. We remain stable and make the best use of what we have.

~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt. Abu.

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