When the oyster found that sand had got under his shell, just one little grain, he said to himself, "If I cannot remove it, I'll try to improve it."
And as time passed by, this small grain of sand had become a beautiful pearl.
When things go wrong and get under your skin, instead of asking who is to blame, start asking, "What can I do to improve the situation?"
Develop the oyster approach and transform the situation into something beautiful.
~ Brahma Kumaris, Mt Abu.