Tuesday, June 05, 2012

Understand Behaviour & Take Steps Towards Positivity !!

To be cool is to work to build relationships. 

It is easy to speak negatively when we do not like something about someone. We first react to them in our mind and so tend to get angry. Our words and behaviour would then naturally be negative and insulting too. This further widens the gap and breaks the relationship. When someone does something undesired, we first need to try and understand his behaviour. Every person has a reason to behave the way he does. If we can’t understand at that time, we at least need to give it time. The more we react to the other person and his behaviour, the greater the distance that is created. So we need to begin the first step of positivity by recognizing some positivity in him. 

~    Brahma Kumaris, Mt.Abu

Monday, June 04, 2012

Break from the Past & Free Yourself !!

To pack up from the past is to finish the negative impact of the past. 

We usually find ourselves to be slaves of the past. The situation has occurred and has gone by but we are not able to forgive and forget the past. We continue to think about it again and again. This brings about the same feelings and experience of the past and we are simply caught up in it. We need to free our mind of the past. We need to see what we have learnt from the past situation, take that and be free from it. We need to forgive and forget. We can forget only when we forgive and we can forgive only when we learn. When we take the learning from every situation. We are able to be free from being a slave of the past.

~   Brahma Kumaris, Mt.Abu